Nobody tells you how to live in your 20s. People think that over the teens are already adults, so they are useless to talk to and control themselves. People in the 20s are entirely cut off. They are adults but they don't have economic power, so they aren't entertained as adults. Also they don't receive care and leanings.
  But, the biggest problem is for women. Women in their 20s are want to divest themselves from a preconceived idea to' get married well' but, they cannot get out of preconceived thoughts about married and after all they want to 'get merry well'.
Women in their 20s are live by what? How should they live? People (like our mothers) said that if they realized the way to live well like a fox in their 20s, there whole life will very different from another women now. Then, how to live to be a lucky woman? Women are progressing more and more, they are changed actively and they have rich talent and economic power. Women are commanding themselves in society of man's advantage. Women are known to way of more beautiful women themselves and they do their best and don't neglect investing in there appearance. Societies want more beautiful women and many women start to be very beautiful. Beautiful women catch the chance used their appearance, so they swing upward rapidly to high positions and start to gain wealth and distinction caused by beautiful appearance with there rich talent and recognition from others. They become really lucky women.
  Our society has reached the full of lookism but appearance isn't everything. Some people talk to look at the beauty of the mind. But, those people make effort to be more beautiful too. though, you have a preparing thing with beauty of appearance. Recently, an author who wrote one of the bestselling book "Women's whole life is decided in 20s" said that the books goal is to help one to live more happily. The author wrote very necked and franked advice. She insists on the anti-moral and anti-conscience that recognized our worldly nature : appearance is the master of life, no damage for body investment, you'll look very good, rich women are beautiful, use marriage for your dream, and so on. Perhaps, you don't understand this book's goal and purpose. But, we've recognized that women become a worldlings in their 20s, 30s and 40s are not tired and 50s and 60s are become a elegantly. Foxy of the times are prepare hardly for their luckly and comforted life to dress up their appearance everytime and become a cute selfishness. They are not afraid of men and are not hurt by love. They aren't looking to marry is the goal of the life, but they think marriage is the way to reach life's goal. They don't miss a good opportunity of boyfriend who works in military service. Also, foxes think rightly thar they shouldn't marry till the their achievement goal.
  Such women have a new name: contra sexual. It was made by a research institute of futural study. This means they are connected the contra what's the mean is opposite and sexual's mean is sex. A contra sexual's goal is a CEO, and they want to be a rich and single for their works. They enjoy sex without any conditions but they think that sex and sweet dates are not important in their life. They work hard and go on a spreed. contra sexual's one of keynotes are thorough self management about appearance and they're very sensitive about trends. Also they persue looks better fashion style and they have more than one hobby.
  Ordinary women are reference intently but, they changed achievement intendly. Exactly men and women are alike each other. Such women are called Ms. strong (metro sexual are called Mr. beauty) Like this, be full of old maids are become a cooler and cooler in the city and society. On Style one of the cable TV channel is on the air about contra-sexual singles in Seoul. It is a reality program show that shows the players who are selfish women succeeding in their usual daily life. Although, women are intently contra-sexual, it is actually most parts were just intently. Young women were applied work first than marriage but on the other hand, they're crazy about TV dramas "Women who want wedding" or the TV sitcom "Old-miss diary" and sympathized in its story about women were crooked in marriage. Some people have a preconceived ideas about contra-sexual as wild and selfish women. Social view of contra-sexual is not good. Tv programs contra-sexual's one viewer was insist on when they're young is possible but they get on in year and years they looks like lack of fascination.
  It is really arrived at the social of appraised to appearance is talent and competition power. Appearance comes across as the new discrimination mechanism after race, sex and religions. That is lookism. We're living in lookism trends, and we make effort to become beautiful person more than others. Beauty is acquired self development and continual effort for our life. You don't have to envy the beautiful women.